About The Book
Nineteen Days Of Grace
On July 19, 2021, Joe Silva and his children’s world changed in an instant. His wife of 29 years, Marianne Grace Silva, suffered a sudden brain aneurysm that left her unconscious and on life support. Over the course of the next nineteen days, Joe and his three children were thrust into an emotional whirlwind caught between fervent prayers for a miracle and the dawning reality of loss.
In this raw and powerful memoir, Nineteen Days of Grace, Joe opens a deeply personal window into those life-altering weeks. With unflinching honesty and spiritual depth, he shares the heartbreak, the sacred moments of grace, and the unwavering faith that carried his family through the unthinkable.
More than a story of grief, this book is a testimony of love, resilience, and the healing power of surrender. It’s a tribute to a remarkable woman- a true Proverbs 31 wife and mother- and a source of strength for anyone walking through the valley of grief and loss.
Whether you are mourning a loved one, questioning God in the face of tragedy, or seeking hope in hard times, Nineteen Days of Grace offers companionship for the journey and light for the path ahead.
EXCELLENT Based on 13 reviews Posted on Amazon Vanessa BhallaVerified Seeking comfort over a lost loved one This was my best friend from elementary and high school. Her husband wrote this after she unexpectedly passed away. This book is for anyone who has lost a loved one and is seeking comfort. Joe writes it so beautifully. You feel his grief. You feel his pain. You can see God working in his life and countless others following his story on FB. This book will change your life. It will help you when you can't fathom all the pain you're going through. It is a love story and a God story. I highly recommend it!Posted on Amazon Mariannna MezzinaVerified Touching dedication to Marianne Silva, a one of a kind mother, daughter, friend and wife. Great book. Can help those with family member loss.Posted on Amazon Godgirl0808Verified God’s love and His promises during life’s hardest moments. Anyone who has experienced illness or the sudden loss of a loved one should read Nineteen Days of Grace. It’s a humbling journey and a powerful reminder of God’s love and His promises during life’s hardest moments.I read it on a flight to Miami, and it stayed with me long after I landed. I recently purchased a copy for a friend who lost her husband to cancer and is now navigating life as a single mother of young children. I hope it brings her the same comfort and encouragement it gave me. 💛📖🙏Posted on Amazon Jessica L HoytVerified Faith beyond the final breath Joe recounts the sacred journey of a love he shared with Marianne, a relationship rooted in faith, nurtured by devotion, and centered on God. Together, they built not only a family, but a life anchored in purpose and grace. Yet when tragedy struck and took from him the love of his life, Joe was brought to the depths of sorrow, where his faith was no longer just a foundation, but a lifeline.In the face of unimaginable loss, he learned to lean on God more fully than ever before, discovering a strength not his own and a peace that defies human understanding. Now, through his story, Joe seeks to extend that same hope to others, that in Christ, there is a love that cannot be overcome, and a peace that remains even in life’s darkest valleys. If you’ve suffered loss, and don’t know where to turn, I highly recommend reading this book.Posted on Amazon Pamela PenaVerified A powerful testimony of trusting God’s plan through heartbreak and loss, and beyond! This treasure is a deeply moving and faith centered account of true love navigating unimaginable loss. An honest and transparent telling of the story portraying the life of Marianne Silva , a loving and devoted wife and mother who suffered a brain aneurysm that ended her life unexpectedly. From the beginning , Joe shares memories and reflections which allow the reader to experience their happy family developing from young love to marriage, to a thriving home with three beautiful children .It is a delight to share their moments of joy, laughter, and progress adding a beautiful dimension in which I felt I was getting to know them personally. You see Marianne as a woman of strong trust in her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and that her life was a blessing to everyone around her.in his own voice Joe shares his pain and interactions with family and friends during this tragic journey which allows us to feel the weight of emotional grief while at the same time revealing the strength that his faith provided in the darkest time. There are well chosen and I’m sure some of Marianne’s favorite Scripture verses, thoughtfully inserted at just the right places to offer comfort and encouragement.Especially precious and beautifully written are the letters included from her children .After reading this book my heart was so touched that I HAD to read it again! I both smiled and cried a lot.It is clear that Marianne’s legacy of love continues to shape her family and inspire others to believe, serve, and honor Jesus Christ in marriage and parenting and to live all of life in a way that brings Him praise. It is a hard reminder of the fragility of life and the importance of cherishing loved ones and the sustaining power of God.This inspiring MUST READ is well told, true to life, and offers hope and healing. Our Lord’s greatness and faithfulness is now even more magnified in Marianne’s life and in Joe’s continued reliance on and persistence in Jesus Christ to tell it.Pam PenaPosted on Amazon KarenVerified Testimony of love, loss and faith This book is a gentle yet powerful companion for anyone navigating loss or questioning faith in the midst of it—I highly recommend it for its emotional authenticity and spiritual depth.Posted on Amazon GretchenVerified A love story for the ages I picked up and read it in one sitting! Mostly through tears but there was some good laughs as well. Joe and Marianne had a true love story going and when they took their vows meant them deeply. I worked with Joe for almost 2 decades and I can tell you HE SHOWS UP!! Especially now a lot of people say they’re people of faith but JOE IS THE REAL DEAL!! Marianne knew true love for Jesus, her family and her husband. He called her “His bride!!” Every one wants a love story like that. She got it. I have no doubt that one day they will be reunited - and she will absolutely glow just like she did in this earthy life! But until then Joe is teaching his kids (and the rest of us) how to be resilient, loving, kind and show up when it’s hard and you’d rather just give up and give in Thanks for your heartfelt honesty Joe I know this book was a labor of love Well donePosted on Amazon Dana RubestelloVerified Encouraging for anyone suffering a loss. I read this entire book in one night. I couldn’t put it down. The love, dedication, and attention to detail keeps the reader captivated from start to finish. I love Joe and Marianne’s love story. I love the life they built together. I love how faithful their entire family remains to Jesus even through their grief journey. This book definitely gives encouragement to anyone going through loss. The Author uses scripture which I love through out the book. I also find it so helpful that at the end of the book there are important emergency hotlines for any one struggling with mental health issues. This amazing and beautiful family’s faith through their heart breaking loss makes this book a blessing for anyone struggling with the loss of a loved one.
Reviews
Ten Seconds in Heaven
I cried out to the Lord, asking Him to please show me Marianne in a dream.
In the quiet of my grief, I found myself praying a simple prayer:
“Lord… please let me see Marianne again. Even if only in a dream.”
It wasn’t a demand. It wasn’t even really an expectation. It was the kind of prayer that rises out of longing, the cry of a heart that simply misses the one it loves.
That night, when I went to bed, it happened.
I don’t remember the moment I fell asleep, but suddenly I was there… in a dream that felt more real than any dream I had ever known.
And Marianne was standing before me.
She wasn’t as I had last seen her on earth. She was radiant. There was a light about her, soft yet brilliant, as if the light itself came from within her. Her face looked more beautiful than I had ever seen it. Every trace of suffering was gone.
She looked completely whole.
Then she smiled.
It was the same smile I had known for so many years, yet somehow even more peaceful, more full of life than I remembered. It was the kind of smile that didn’t need words because it carried its own message.
Her hair was different. It was drawn back in thick, intricate braids, fuller than I had ever seen before, almost like French braids, beautifully woven and strong. I had never seen her wear her hair like that before, yet in that moment it seemed perfectly fitting.
She wore a white gown, but even calling it white doesn’t do it justice. The gown glowed brightly, almost beyond description. It wasn’t light shining on fabric; it was as if light itself had become her garment. Brilliant, pure, and yet gentle to look at.
We didn’t speak.
She simply looked at me… and smiled.
And somehow, in that silent moment, everything was understood. There was peace in her face. Joy. A quiet assurance that she was not lost, not gone, but alive in a way far greater than anything we know here.
The moment lasted only a few seconds, perhaps ten at most.
Then the dream faded, and I woke.
But I woke with something I hadn’t felt in a long time:
Peace.
Because I had asked the Lord, in the loneliness of my heart, to show her to me.
And for just a brief moment in the night…
He did.
He is a Good Father!